Friday, 30 August 2013

Helping a Victim of Dating or Domestic Violence


It’s easy to stand outside of an abusive relationship and offer simplistic advice, like: “If you’d just 
do this and this, then your problems would be over!” Relationships are a complicated web of 
needs and perceptions and personalities. Don’t fall into a judgmental mode. Instead, prepare 
yourself to helpful by getting into a mindset of empathy, patience, and understanding. Try to 
adhere to the following helping guidelines: 
  • Listen, believe, and validate the victim.  Tell them you care and want them to be safe.

  • Do not ask blaming questions. (i.e., don’t ask, “What did you do or say to provoke your partner to such violence?” or “Why don’t you just break up with your partner?”) Victims are not responsible for someone else’s choices or violence and do not need more shame. 


  • Do not be critical of the abusive partner. Instead make a firm statement that violence under any circumstance is unacceptable. 


  • Do not assume that the victim wants to leave the relationship, or that you know what is best for them. 


  • Do not try to force the couple apart. It may be difficult for the victim to leave the relationship for many reasons, (i.e., he/she doesn’t know how to be consistently assertive, he/she doesn’t feel like they deserve any better, he/she may not recognize that abuse is wrong, emotional bonds of love or dependency to the abuser may be strong, he/she feels excessive hope or fear, or he/she feels trapped.) 


  • Don’t pressure the victim to make quick decisions. 

  • Become a comfort zone for the victim. Assure the victim that their conversation with you will not be revealed to the abuser. 


  • If necessary, assist the victim in getting legal help or other sources of protection (i.e., protective order, restraining order, changing current phone number, etc.).

  • Be aware of advocacy agencies that are available to assist and support victims of relationship violence (i.e., USU SAAVI Office, CAPSA, etc.).Offer to go with the victim to get help (i.e., victim advocacy agency, medical assistance, counseling, or to tell family members).

  • If the victim is still in high school, work with school administration to modify the couple’s schedules to prevent any physical or visual contact. 

  • Call the police if you witness an assault.

Mental Health


What does it mean to have a healthy mind? Mental health is, according to the World Health Organisation, more than just the absence of mental illness. It is a combination of a number of factors to do with wellbeing. Firstly it involves having a sense of self-worth (i.e. recognising one's own potential as an individual). Secondly, it means having the ability to cope well with the normal stresses of life, such as social dilemmas, decision-making and day-to-day emotions. Finally, it involves being an active part of a community (i.e. having a job, contributing time and skills, or simply having a positive impact on others).
Mental health can be affectedby a number of things, including genetics, physical illness, traumatic events, prolonged stress and environmental factors such as the political, economic and social climate.
The Mental Health Foundation (MHF) says one quarter of the British population experience some kind of mental health problem in any one year. The most common mental health problems in this country are anxiety and depression, both of which are thought to have a domino effect on things like work productivity, physical health and the wider economy. Talking therapies like psychotherapy and counselling are considered effective treatments for a wide range of mental health problems, as recommended by medical health professionals and official mental health charities in the UK.

How to look after your mental health

There are a number of ways you can look after your mental health. Even if you have been diagnosed with a mental health problem, there's still lots you can do to improve your mental and emotional wellbeing.  

Talk about how you feel

Don't keep things bottled up. If you're feeling down, confused, anxious, or scared - find someone to talk to. This could be a friend, a family member, a colleague, or even a counsellor. Feelings can be a difficult subject to bring up but when you do, it could feel like a weight off your shoulders. Talk about what it feels like inside your head and the challenges you're facing. Confiding in someone who really empathises will help you see you're not abnormal, or beyond help.

Run, dance, play

Do whatever physical activity you can. If you can run without pain, do so. If you like sport, join a team. If you live close to work, walk there and back. The feel of the breeze, the sun and even the rain on your face will invigorate you and set you up for the day. Regular exercise can make you feel good because it releases endorphins (feel good hormones). Studies show it can increase concentration levels, aid sleep and boost self-esteem and confidence. It'll also improve your health, fitness and even the look of your skin, hair and body shape.

Eat healthily

What we eat can affect how we feel. The brain needs certain nutrients in order to function well so it's important to get a balanced and varied diet which includes:
  • oily fish at least twice a week
  • nuts and seeds
  • whole-grains
  • a variety of fruit and vegetables
  • plenty of water.
Sometimes feeling sad can make us reach for comforting foods that tend to be high in sugar and fat. Unfortunately this can begin a long and vicious cycle of eating too much, feeling sluggish and guilty for eating too much and then eating again to deal with these negative emotions. It can be difficult to stay away from these unhealthy foods but over time you can desensitise yourself from the cravings. 

Take a break

It's easy to get sucked into the happenings of everyday life. This makes it hard to take a step back and look at everything objectively. Sometimes problems can seem bigger than they really are. If you can find a moment to go somewhere different for a while - perhaps a five minute walk in the park, or if you can afford the time and money, a holiday somewhere - then do it. Taking a break is so important in an overly stimulating environment such as ours. Yoga, meditation and breathing exercises are all effective ways of resting your mind if you can't afford to get away physically.

Types of mental health problems

The Mental Health Foundation (MHF) says there are two main types of mental health problems - one described as having 'neurotic symptoms', and the other described as having 'psychotic symptoms'. While these categories can help health professionals with diagnosis and treatment, it's worth noting that because some mental health problems have both neurotic and psychotic symptoms, distinguishing between the two is not always useful.

Neurotic symptoms

If you hear someone speak about 'common mental health problems', they're probably referring to mental health problems that have 'neurotic symptoms'. Neurotic symptoms are severe versions of 'normal' emotions many of us experience such as stress, anxiety and sadness. Most people feel down or worried from time to time, but when those emotions start to impact daily life, it may be a sign of a mental health problem. When mental health problems are ignored or dismissed as character traits, they can start to impact a person's ability to live an enjoyable and productive life. This is why it is so important to seek support as soon as your problems overcome your ability to cope.
Mental health problems with neurotic symptoms include:

Psychotic symptoms

Mental health problems with psychotic symptoms are less common. While neurotic symptoms are more serious versions of everyday emotions, psychotic symptoms interfere with a person's perception of reality. This means they can start to see, hear, or feel things that aren't there, or form very unrealistic views about themselves, other people and the world around them. According to the MHF around two in every 100 people in the UK suffer mental health problems with psychotic symptoms. If you are concerned about yourself or someone else, it is advisable to seek help from a GP who will offer a diagnosis and discuss treatment options with you, which may include medication or counselling.
Mental health problems with psychotic symptoms include:

Symptoms of mental health problems

When you get a physical illness like a cold, or a chest infection, you might notice symptoms like a sore throat, blocked nose and croaky voice. These signs tell you quite clearly that something is wrong so you can take medication, or rest in bed for a few days. When it comes to mental health the signs aren't always so obvious and they are often hidden or mistaken for other things.
There is no set list when it comes to symptoms of mental health problems - each condition is different and of course each individual is different, too. If you think you might have a mental health problem then the best thing to do is visit your GP for a professional opinion.
Some very general signs that you might have a mental health problem include the following:
  • Withdrawing from society - Feeling the need to hide away, refuse invitations and generally avoid social contact.
  • Teary - Crying a lot or constantly feeling like you're about to cry.
  • Drop in productivity - Your grades go down or you stop performing so well at work.
  • Weight loss or weight gain - Weight changes indicate a change in eating patterns, symptomatic of underlying emotions. 
  • Dirty or untidy - Spending a lot of time in your 'comfy clothes', or failing to keep on top of your hygiene.
  • Tired - Feeling drained, dopey or lethargic.
  • Difficulty speaking - Getting your words jumbled up, forgetting the right word for something, or talking too quickly or slowly.
  • Spending too much - Being reckless with money.

Causes of mental health problems

Causes of mental health problems can be:
  • psychological
  • physical
  • social and environmental.

Psychological causes

A 'psychological cause' is something that affects the mind or emotional state of a person. Some mental health problems can be triggered by traumatic experiences such as the loss of a loved one, a serious accident, a personal assault, or a natural disaster. When something traumatic happens to someone their whole perception of the world can change, resulting in feelings of fear, guilt, anger and helplessness that persist long after the event happened. As the person attempts to contain these negative feelings, unhealthy behaviours can emerge including self-harm, bulimia and even suicidal thoughts.

Physical causes

A 'physical cause' is something that affects the body on a biological level i.e. how it is made up. Physical causes of some mental health problems include:
  • Genetics - Scientists think some people are more at risk of mental health problems than others because of genes passed down from parents.
  • Early development - Some studies suggest that a baby is at greater risk if its mother takes drugs or contracts a virus while she's pregnant.
  • Head injuries - In some cases people have developed mental health problems with psychotic symptoms after a serious head injury.
  • Nutrition - Links have been found between certain vitamin and mineral deficiencies (e.g. Vitamin D, zinc and fatty acids) and mental health.

Social and environmental causes

The things that happen around us can have a big impact on mental health. Social and environmental causes include:
  • where you live
  • where you work
  • the relationships you have with family and friends.
Some people live in small spaces in packed cities, some live in isolated locations with little social contact, while others live in poverty, in war zones and difficult climates. Some people have tough, heavy workloads, others are bored with the mundanity of theirs. How you live, who you surround yourself with and where you spend your time can all impact your mental health. Sometimes we can't change these things but sometimes we can. If you can improve your social and physical environment somehow then you may be able to improve your mental health.

Living with mental health problems

Unlike a cold or a cough, mental health problems don't just clear up with a course of antibiotics. Often, people have to learn how to live with mental health problems. Challenges faced include:
  • social stigma
  • going to work
  • going to school
  • relationships
  • parenting
  • physical health.

Social stigma

Sadly, there is still social stigma attached to mental health in the UK. According to MHF, nine out of 10 people with mental health problems say discrimination of some kind has had a negative effect on their lives. Other people's ignorance and lack of understanding can make it difficult for people with certain conditions to find work, maintain stable relationships, find acceptable housing or be socially included in mainstream society.
Views on mental health have changed drastically over the past few centuries due to research and greater understanding of some conditions. Unfortunately, some sensationalised news articles, films and stories mean misconceptions (such as the idea that all people with mental health problems are dangerous and violent) still exist.
Research shows that the best way of fighting these damaging stereotypes is to broaden the communication channels between people with mental health problems and the wider community so people realise that suffers aren't 'mad', or 'dangerous', but normal people coping with challenging conditions.

Going to work and school

According to Mind, one in six workers is dealing with a mental health problem at any one time. Certain mental health problems can be caused by work (usually stress and anxiety), while others impact our ability to work productively. Some people feel reluctant to talk about mental health in the workplace in case they get penalised for it. Young people in school often worry they'll face bullying or alienation if their peers know they have a mental health problem. While it can be difficult to talk about mental health with peers, colleagues and bosses, keeping an open dialogue in school and the workplace is important because it could help alleviate stigma and prevent problems from escalating.

Relationships

Some mental health problems make it more difficult for a person to find and keep love. When mental health problems emerge after a couple have been together for a while, the new challenges can start to form cracks in the relationship. Suspicion, frustration and lack of understanding can cause tension, arguments and even splits. Couples counselling is very effective for teaching couples how to open up and make space for a change in dynamic.

Parenting

Living with mental health problems can be even more challenging when you have children. Parents need to be stable and supportive to provide the best care for their children, but some mental health problems by nature make this difficult. The ups and downs, bad days and good days can be difficult for children to deal with but with the right support in place, it can be managed. Mental health problems can even draw families closer as they learn to overcome challenges together.

Treating mental health problems

You can receive treatment for mental health problems by going to your GP.Once you've had a proper diagnosis, your GP will advise on the best treatment route to take. The most common are:
  • Prescribed medication to manage symptoms (drugs are not intended to cure the problem).
  • Talking therapies including counselling, psychotherapy, group psychotherapy, psychoanalysis and other therapies.

Medication for mental health problems

Doctors prescribe medication to help reduce the symptoms of some mental health problems. Sometimes drugs can help people manage their problems and improve their quality of life, but they are not intended to cure the problem.
Depending on what type of mental health problem you have, you might be prescribed:
  • Antipsychotics to reduce symptoms of psychosis (hallucinations, distorted view of reality etc.).
  • Antidepressants to reduce the symptoms of depression (low moods, loss of emotion etc.).
  • Mood stabilisers to moderate extreme changes of mood.
  • Benzodiazepines to reduce anxiety.

Talking therapies for mental health problems

Talking therapies are just that - therapy which involves talking. A large number of psychological techniques are used by professionals to reduce the symptoms and impact of certain mental health problems. Talking therapies include:
  • Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) aims to change negative patterns of thinking and behaving.
  • Dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) teaches clients how to react normally to emotional triggers.
  • Cognitive analytical therapy (CAT) explores new ways for the client to cope with problems.
  • Psychotherapy encourages clients to use their own insight to solve problems.
  • Creative therapies such as art therapy and drama therapy explore ways of channelling emotions.
  • Family intervention encourages the family to engage as a unit to solve problems that affect home life.
  • Counselling allows clients to talk freely without fear of criticism or judgement.

Thursday, 29 August 2013

4 packaged foods that are killing you

Packaged foods help in time-management, but experts say they are killing you slowly



Mornings are a rushed affair and to make life easy, you pour a glass of milk over the cereal that you picked from the supermarket. So you think you've had a wholesome meal, right? Not really.

Medical experts say that packaged food — even the cereal that you have been assured is healthy — the quick fix for the on-the-go generation is full of chemicals and, more often than not, 'completely devoid of nutrients'.

While you may argue that you look for the reassuring words on packets — no-trans-fat, no preservatives, no monosodium glutamate (MSG), experts say that these boxes are full of other hidden ingredients that can pose serious health problems if consumed in the long-term.

Biscuits
Killer ingredients 

Refined wheat flour, sugar, edible vegetable oil, milk solids, invert syrup, raising agents, salts, emulsifiers, vitamins and dough conditioner
What's hiding?
We already know the toxic effects of refined flour. However, what's scarier are the high levels of edible vegetable oil in these baked cookies, says macrobiotic nutritionist Shonali Sabherwal. "Edible vegetable oil is nothing but fat as its nutrients have been stripped. This loads up the liver, which reacts to fat that cannot be processed in the body, resulting in a fatty liver and slowing down your body," she explains. Besides, invert syrup, a mix of both glucose and fructose creates a sense of being full, and this sugar also make you crave more sugar — so while most products scream no sugar (they mean white sugar), they still add glucose, fructose, or for diabetics, chemical sweeteners, which actually have long-term effects. "Milk solids have also been linked to schizophrenia, autismdepression and multiple sclerosis (MS)," she adds.

Muesli
Killer ingredients 
Invert syrup, strawberry crush (sugar, water, strawberry pulp, thickener), strawberry syrup, pineapple crush, mango crush, apple juice, concentrate, liquid glucose, soy lecithin
What's hiding?
The label says there's no added sugar, but the sugar rush you get from the various syrups added to make this a scrumptious breakfast, is perhaps why you probably have been hyperactive. If your blood sugar levels are going awry, blame it on your breakfast cereals. And the extreme sugar rush is not the only cause of worry.

Most packaged muesli contains soy lecithin, a by-product of the soybean oil production. Studies suggest some of the common sideeffects of soy lecithin — used to bind the various ingredients together — are change in weight (loss and gain), loss of appetite, occasional nausea, dizziness, vomiting and confusion. "Besides, if you have been advised by your doctor not to eat soya, you may just be consuming it unknowingly even in breads," shares eco-nutritionist Kavita Mukhi.

Ready-to-eat-meals 
Killer ingredients 
Dehydrated vegetables, water, edible vegetable oil, cashewnut, salt, sugar, butter, ginger paste
What's hiding?
Physician and cardiometabolic specialist, at Tardeo's Bhatia Hospital, Dr Hemant Thacker, says that ready-to-eat meals are full of dehydrated vegetables which are nutrient-empty. They are only fibre and calories. Worse, the process of reheating the vegetable kills whatever micronutrients are left in the food. He adds that it is impossible to preserve food for 12 months if they haven't added any additives or chemicals. "Those additives may be permissible for that much quantity of food, but if you keep eating it day in and day out, you are posing great danger to your kidney and liver," he says.

Packaged soups
Killer ingredients 
Corn flour, edible vegetable oil, thickener, softening agent, sugar, salt, dehydrated vegetables, dried glucose syrup, edible vegetable fat, yeast extract powder, hydrolyzed vegetable protein, acidity regulator, flavour enhancer
What's hiding?
Prepare tomato soup using fresh tomatoes. Do this for a couple of days. Does the colour turn out the same every day? No. How then do the various soup manufacturers manage to keep the colour of packet soup uniform? It is thanks to the colouring agents which are sometimes disguised as 'flavour enhancers'. Dr Thacker says, "Colouring agents are toxic. They put the liver and kidney into overdrive, since these organs have to work extra hard to wash away chemicals from the system and make them safe for the body. This means that the overworked liver is unable to do its regular job — it handles the nutrients that have been absorbed by the gut from food, removes toxins from the blood, makes proteins like albumin and clotting factors, and secretes bile which helps digest fatty foods in particular — as efficiently." That apart, Sabherwal points out, hydrolyzed vegetable protein contains up to 30 per cent MSG, which is known to trigger headaches, rapid heart rate, chest pain and cause nausea. "Moreover, yeast extract powder only increases the bad bacteria (yeast) in the body. This causes problems with the pH levels and creates acidic blood condition, therefore decreasing immunity," she says.

Superfoods every woman must have

Feel younger, stay slim and thwart diseases by including these superfoods in your diet. We brought in experts to tell you what you need to eat, to stay fit and healthy. So, sit back and read on as we give you some important tips that work wonders..


Low fat yoghurt
High in calcium and protein, low fat yoghurt is ideal for women. Nutritionist Pallavi Srivastava says, "Yoghurt, being an excellent source of calcium, helps fight osteoporosis. The consumption of yoghurt is also said to decrease the risk of breast cancer, reduce irritable bowel syndrome, inflammatory digestive tract disorders — all of which are common in women." It reduces the risk of stomach ulcers and vaginal infections.
Quantity: 1 bowl every day
Fatty fish
Fatty fish are rich in Omega-3 fatty acids. Salmon, sardines, tuna and mackerel help reduce the risk of blood clot formation that might occur due to the use of contraceptive pills. Bariatric surgeon Dr Abhay Agrawal says, "Fatty fish protects against diseases related to the heart, stroke, hypertension, depression, joint pain, rheumatoid arthritis and reproductive problems, and in some cases even from Alzheimer's disease."
Omega-3 helps in optimal brain and vision development of the baby in the case of pregnant or lactating mothers. It is known to boost the level of serotonin, which is a feel-good brain chemical that aids in fighting postpartum depression.
Quantity - 2 to 3 servings every week

Beans
Low in fat and cholesterol; and a good source of protein and fibre, beans fight against heartdisease and breast cancer. They are ideal for women who are either affected or have chances of getting colon cancer. An excellent source of vegetable protein, they aid women going through menopause.
Quantity: 3 to 4 servings every week
Dark chocolate
Dark chocolates are said to be rich in protective anti-oxidants that help reduce the risk of strokeand heart disease. It consists of magnesium, manganese, phosphorous and copper zinc, which are important nutrients for maintaining strong bones. Certain studies also suggest that dark chocolate lowers blood pressure, sharpens thinking and hydrates the skin. It's the perfect stressbuster when a woman is PMSing, and it tastes sensual without being high in calories.
Quantity: One quarter a day
Papaya
An excellent source of potassium and vitamin C, papaya can offset the potentially harmful effects of sodium on blood pressure. A research by the US Department of Health and Human Servicessuggests that women are at a higher risk of gallstones than men. So, load up on papaya because it helps combat gallbladder diseases. But pregnant women should refrain from papaya since it acts as a contraceptive, which can lead to a miscarriage or an abortion.
Quantity: 2 slices per day
Tomatoes
Tomatoes contain a powerful anti-oxidant — lycopene, which helps reduce the chances of being affected with breast cancer. Nutritionist Mansi Belani says, "Tomatoes are also known to protect from the harmful UV rays of the sun. It helps a woman stay younger and slimmer."
Quantity: 1 tomato every day
Spinach
Spinach is known to be one of the best sources of folate which prevents birth defects, heart disease, colon cancer and dementia. Spinach also helps our skin from getting damaged due to heat, and delays wrinkling, fine lines and roughness of the skin with comes with age.
Quantity: About 2 to 3 servings a week
Berries
Dr Agrawal suggests, "Like wine, berries protect your body with powerful anti-carcinogenic nutrients — anthocyans, which are believed to play a role in cell repair." High in vitamin C and folic acid, it is essential for women in their child bearing years. Its powerful anti-oxidant not only protects the heart but also the skin against ageing. Cranberries are known to have a positive impact on your vision, and to help reduce the chances of urinary tract infections which are common in women of all age groups.
Quantity: 3 to 4 servings every week
Whole grains
The consumption of whole grain helps combat blood pressure and a slow metabolism. Srivastava says, "Swapping refined grains like white bread and rice with whole wheat bread, rice, brown rice and oats will add more fibre to your diet and give you a feeling of fullness with fewer calories." Studies suggest that whole grains help the body retain potassium, which helps in maintaining blood pressure.
Quantity: Once a day

Foods you should eat to stay happy


Here's a list of foods that have a de-stressing effect and boost your mood

If you're an emotional eater, chances are that whenever tragedy strikes, you probably go running to seek comfort in ice creams, desserts and cookies, pizzas, burgers, etc — basically foods that are loaded with sugar and fat. However, you know that no matter how much a soothing effect these foods have on your emotions, they aren't really great for your waistline. But still you gorge on them in times of despair and get racked with guilt later. We give you a list of healthy foods...

Nuts
Walnuts and almonds are the healthiest of all nuts. Nuts are fortified with the B group of vitamins, magnesium, zinc and omega oils that helps to keep cortisol (a stress hormone) levels low. Also, they are a good source of energy, balance out sugar cravings and aids metabolism. The monounsaturated fats present in nuts help in curbing overeating. But there's no need to go overboard with nuts as they have high calories. Stick to a handful; say about 10-12 nuts daily.

Broccoli
Broccoli is considered as one of nature's superfoods. It's rich in folic acid that helps in reducing stress and irritability. But if you're still averse to eating steamed or stir-fried broccoli, then eat it with a low-fat version of your favourite dressing.

Salmon
If you're a seafood lover, then you'll definitely relish this option. Oily fish (including mackerel and anchovies) but especially salmon is rich in omega-3 fatty acids, which aid in optimum functioning of the brain. Low levels of omega-3 have been associated with poor blood and energy regulation linked with stress. This in turn, helps you to deal with stress effectively.

Milk
Drinking a glass of milk can boost your mood because it contains a compound called tryptophan, which gets converted to serotonin, also known as the happy hormone. Also, the magnesium, potassium and calcium content in milk help keep blood pressure in control. Lactium, a protein in milk has a calming effect on the body. Also, drinking milk reduces symptoms of PMS and boosts energy.

Hot cocoa
Having warm beverages tend to raise the temperature in the body by a few notches. And the feeling of warmth that we derive from a slight raise in temperature, which we often associate with comfort, triggers a similar response in the brain.

Chamomile/Green/black tea
Theanine, an amino and glutamic acid found in tea, reduces tension producing beta waves and accelerates the production of relaxation inducing alpha waves in the brain. A UK study found that having four cups of black tea daily for about six weeks lowers cortisol levels. Having chamomile tea is known to have a calming effect and is great for aiding good sleep.

Did you know? 
The antioxidants present in green tea aid curbing physiological stress and also a genetic tendency towards stress called COMT gene.

Berries
Take your pick from a variety of berries like strawberries, raspberries and mulberries. Berries have abundant antioxidant properties that support brain function and blood circulation. Raspberries are said to contain the most amount of ellagic acid that improves liver functions, regulating cholesterol levels and eliminating toxins. Since berries are sweet, they are the healthiest choices to satisfy your sugar cravings.

Beetroots
This colourful tuber is a great source of folate also known as vitamin B9. This vitamin promotes functioning of the liver and the nervous system, which usually gets congested under chronic stress.